How I Recovered From A Broken Heart
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It wasn’t until I began accepting responsibility for myself and honestly examining my causal role in the every failed relationship that I finally learned how to recover from a broken heart…..
Several years before meeting my husband, in the aftermath of another failed relationship I had to come to terms with the fact that I was the one common factor in the every situation. What I recognized was a lifetime history of unresolved hurts and issues I hadn’t dealt with. This unresolved pain acted out in my relationships like a self-destructive third party. It wasn’t until I recognized this that I discovered how to recover from a broken heart. Here’s what I learned:
- I spent my twenties running from pain in my childhood futily. It wasn’t until I recognize the fact that you can’t suppress or run from something you carry within that I learned how to recover form a broken heart.
- I was seriously plagued with self esteem issues. I had always attributed these insecurities to all the childhood bullying I endured growing up. In reality, it existed as an issue that plagued by me because of decisions made by me. It wasn’t until I recognized how I choose to put others feelings before my own, suppress my pain, and not stand up for myself that I learned how to recover from a broken heart.
- In the end what I discovered was underlying the my hurt were a series of decisions I made to perpetuate it in my life. Who I believed I was is what I became. What I believed was possible for me is what I ended up getting in my life. Most importantly, the love I recieved in my relationships ended up reflecting what little love I was able to give myself.
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