Writers-Block-Unblocked.comFree Advertising Blog. Get Your Squidoo Lenses, Articles, and Blogs Indexed FAST!

She wants to get a divorce and you don’t. He wants to leave and you want him to stay and work it out. Can you convince your spouse to stay and save the marriage? Or is divorce the only option available?Convincing your spouse to stay and save the marriage - wow, sounds virtually impossible, doesn’t it? When one spouse hears, “I want a divorce”, or “I don’t love you anymore”, the world stops and time stands still. Life becomes a limbo full of unanswered questions. Some are ok with their spouse leaving, but many more people want their spouse to come back and save the marriage.  In fact, over at BringBackMyEx.com, there are lots of people who are desperate to save their marriage and are getting real answers to their problems.

Can you convince your spouse to try and save your marriage? Is there a right thing to say to help let your spouse know that you really DO want the marriage to continue? If you still love your spouse, and want your spouse to stay and help you repair the marriage, there is a right way to handle this situation.

The most important thing to say to a spouse you want to keep is, “I love you”. Throwing guilt at your spouse will not help this situation. Many men and women who tried to convince their spouse to say “for the children” or “for our families”, or even for their religion, have found their spouse running even faster away from the marriage.

There are only two reasons to save a marriage - you and your spouse. Everything else and everyone else will adjust to whatever decision you two make for your future. The decision to stay together should be based on nothing other than your feelings for each other.

In most cases, giving the running spouse some breathing room without guilt could go a long way. While each situation is as unique as the two people involved in it, one fact remains true - trying to bully or force your spouse to stay in the marriage and love you will not work.

There are some very specific pieces of advice for spouses who find themselves in the position to try and convince their spouse to stay and save the marriage. Unique relationship situations need, and deserve, unique relationship advice. Please remember that while your situation is unique, you are not alone!

Spouses that find themselves in a similar situation as you have found a lot of help, advice, and comfort at BringBackMyEx.com . Feel free to visit and read how to save your marriage….even when YOU are the only one trying.